Before you get married, there are several important conversations you need to have. In this episode, I’m sharing 12 emotionally healthy questions every couple should ask before getting married. Whether you’re single, engaged, or already married and just want to build deeper intimacy with your spouse, these conversation starters will help you avoid pitfalls and create a lasting connection in your relationship.
Many people enter marriage with unrealistic expectations and without the preparation they truly need. That’s why I’m walking you through twelve powerful questions designed to spark vulnerable conversations—including how to make your partner feel heard, set appropriate boundaries with friends, handle conflict, address emotional wounds, and discover your emotional health meters.
You’ll discover:
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The essential questions to identify what makes you (and your partner) feel loved, valued, and understood
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How to recognize and talk about emotionally unsafe behaviors that can sabotage connection
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The importance of knowing how you and your partner respond to hurt, stress, and burnout—and why you need to see each other at your worst as well as your best before tying the knot
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Strategies for reconnecting after conflict and not taking each other for granted
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Why sharing your dreams, emotional needs, and even moments of sadness can set the stage for greater intimacy and emotional health
I also dive into how friendship dynamics must shift when you get married (yes, even those platonic besties!) and I break down why recognizing your own patterns—and understanding your partner’s—is the foundation for a healthy relationship.
Resources Mentioned in this Episode:
- Download my free audio guide,7 Secret Marriage Rules to Know Before I Do and After I Did
- Grab your copy of my brand new book, Tried and True: Marriage Advice from 12 Imperfect Biblical Couples.
If you’re engaged, thinking about marriage, or want to refresh and deepen your connection, these 12 questions will transform the way you communicate and understand each other.
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Hi Dana
My wife, Voncille and I (Melvin) love your podcast. We listened to your recent episode about having the importance of keeping being friends with your spouse. We have a TV show called “Living A Godly Marriage” and our YouTube page is @melvonmarriage. We recently did a series called “Having Fun In Marriage” and would love to talk with you about the many fun categories and ideas we came up with. In interested contact us.