After taking Infidelity Intensive, you will experience healing and hope for yourself and your marriage as you learn the pathway to creating a safer, more honest marriage and leave hurt, rejection, and shame in the past.
is the proven roadmap I’ve used with my affair-recovery clients for years to help them heal from what threatened to destroy them and rebuild a marriage they love again.
Enroll in the course
Work at your pace to implement what you're learning
Experience healing for yourself and a renewed hope for your marriage
A newfound clarity (and closure)
Get to the root of what went wrong—beyond the affair—that contributed to the breakdown in your marriage, all with no waitlist or clinical setting.
The right tools to rebuild trust
Practical, step-by-step strategies for restoring safety, setting boundaries, and creating emotional transparency
A roadmap to forgiveness
Guidance on navigating the complex process of forgiving—whether or not you decide to reconcile.
Hope for a Stronger Future
Whether you stay together or part ways, you will experience renewed confidence, healing, and a vision for maintaining a healthy relationship.
If you had told me 25 years ago that my marriage would experience infidelity (on both sides) and that I would grow a profitable and purposeful business helping many others to overcome their shame, I would’ve called your bluff.
Never in my wildest dreams did I think my marriage could go through anything like this, let alone that I would stay. So whatever stage you’re in, I get where you’re at.
Through my highly rated marriage podcast, Rebuilding Us, I’ve been able to share with nearly 1 million listeners the power of rising from the ruins. My one-on-one coaching clients have benefited from serious, strategic work, restoring their marriages, and now I’m making this process attainable to you in an online course!
“If I get married, I want a marriage like you and Dad’s” – my 23-year-old daughter said to me recently.
That is what you call “end game.” I’m here for it. Are you?
In this foundational module, we focus on stabilizing the emotional chaos that often follows infidelity. You’ll learn how to calm the storm within, identify what’s needed for safety and clarity, and begin the process of emotional triage—so healing has a place to start. Whether you’re reeling from betrayal or feeling stuck in shame, this is where rescue begins.
In this module, we explore the why behind the betrayal—not to excuse it, but to understand it. You’ll uncover hidden patterns, unmet needs, and root causes that contributed to the breakdown. This is a space for truth-telling, hard questions, and eye-opening clarity—because revelation is the beginning of restoration.
Learn how to respond, not react. This module walks you through a healthy grieving process and helps you communicate your pain, needs, and boundaries with honesty and courage. Whether you’re the betrayed or the betrayer, authenticity opens the door to healing.
True healing begins with true repentance. In this module, we walk through what real remorse looks like—and how repair happens over time. You’ll learn how to apologize meaningfully, rebuild emotional safety, and take steps toward restoration. If you’re the betrayed spouse, you’ll also learn how to discern true repentance in your spouse.
It’s time to let go—of resentment, shame, and the need to control what you can’t understand. This module guides you through the process of forgiveness (even if you’re not “there” yet) and emotional release, so you can move forward unburdened.
Trust isn’t rebuilt by words alone—it’s a process that is rebuilt through consistent, intentional action over time. In this module, you’ll learn the pillars of trust, how to earn it back, when and how to give it back, and how to create an environment where it can grow again.
This is where new life begins. In the final module, we’ll help you rediscover hope, redefine your relationship, and renew your vision for the future—together or individually. It’s not just about recovering from the trauma of infidelity but about rising from the ruins into a new you.
Healing isn’t linear, and setbacks may likely occur. This bonus module prepares you for setbacks and missteps, offering guidance on how to respond rightly with accountability and wisdom—so one slip doesn’t lead to another spiral.
Nope, this is NOT a free Facebook group. It’s a members-only dedicated group of individuals, couples, (and me!) working through the same material you’ll be working through, who will encourage you when needed, help answer questions you may have along your journey, pray for you (#WorthIt), and cheer you on as you experience wins. Some of these folks might just become the friend(s) you’ve always needed.
Map out your path before you even begin the first module. This assesment will help you determine exactly where you on your current path, the options that will fit you best where you are right now, and chart out the roadmap to jumpstart your journey.
Schedule a free 30-minute coaching call with Dana Che at any point in your time working through Infidelity Intensive. Ask whatever you need to get you back on track or keep you on track in this process. This is a one-time coaching call that you will initiate according to your schedule.
Over $2488 worth of value in a fraction of the time counseling takes and costs!
Yours today for just $997!
You’ll have started the path to focusing on your healing, understood what made your marriage vulnerable to infidelity, and the power of taking responsibility for your choices, while not excusing the choices made by others . . . all before you ever have to make a final financial commitment to Infidelity Intensive.
That’s a pretty sweet deal.
But if you see no results after implementing the process, simply reach out, show us where you’ve put in the work, and I’ll refund your investment.
This course is for both individuals and couples. If you’re healing alone, you’ll gain tools to process the pain, rebuild confidence, and move forward with clarity. If you and your spouse are both willing, even better—you’ll learn how to walk the healing journey together, even if you’re on different timelines. The course is designed to support growth at your own pace, with space for both partners to process in their own way.
That’s okay. Healing can start with just one willing heart. This course will equip you with tools to process pain, rebuild trust, and grow—even if your spouse isn’t ready yet. Your growth is not dependent on their participation. And often, when one partner begins to change, the other starts to soften too. So if you’re willing, come as you are. Your healing journey is still worth taking.
The core content is completely private—you can go through it on your own, at your own pace. There are optional group coaching and community support opportunities, but you’ll never be required to participate or share personal details unless you choose to.
I completely understand. This course is designed with care to meet you in your pain, not overwhelm you. While we do go deep, it’s paced intentionally to help you feel safe, supported, and seen—every step of the way. You don’t have to be “ready,” just willing.
My approach is a blend of faith-based guidance and coaching strategies I help you process the pain, rebuild trust, and move toward healing through faith-based principles, practical tools, and heart-level accountability—no fluff, just real transformation.
That’s okay. While I do bring a Christian perspective, the tools and principles I teach—like communication, trust-building, and emotional healing—are helpful for anyone. You’re welcome here, no matter where you are in your faith journey.
You’ll want to spend anywhere from one to two hours per week to watch the lessons and reflect or complete any exercises. The course is designed to be flexible so you can go at your own pace, without feeling overwhelmed.
Yes. Emotional affairs can be just as painful and confusing as physical ones, and this course addresses both. You’ll learn how to recognize the impact, rebuild trust, and heal from betrayal—no matter what form it took.
Not just “getting over” the affair, but “Growing through” the affair.
You may not know how things will turn out, but you’re willing to see.
You don’t know all the necessary steps, but you’re willing to trust (the proven) process.
From being disappointed by those we thought could’ve (and should’ve) help us, to failing to see the obvious signs in front of us, to trying to DIY our recovery, Shaun and I failed at rebuilding our marriage over and over.
From ultimatums to unenforceable boundaries to two steps forward and five steps back, it seemed we’d never have the marriage we both wanted.
This is why I have committed my life’s work to helping people just like you learn the tools of rebuilding your marriage, so it doesn’t take you 13 years, too!
After helping hundreds of people recover their marriages, here’s what I pray for you, too:
There’s a reason you’re still reading this page right now, because you know this course is the answer you’ve been looking for. You’ve got everything to gain and only bitterness and resentment to lose! Plus with my 14-day guarantee, the choice is pretty simple.
It’s time to rebuild.
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